where they have been
Its becoming clearer and clearer that how others treat us is a reflection of where they have been. Their patterns. Some people have experienced such cruelty that they feel justified in that act. Seeing that they are trying to get us to go along with their story of abuse. To comfort them we reach out and get attacked. There are ways to help. We can stay strong in our hearts that we know people can be kind and loving to one another. We can demonstrate our best ability to say “no” to the abuse. We can show the beauty of taking care of ourselves when life gets tough. This gives people an example of another path. This gives people a new vision. This can reset the cycle.